Let’s be honest: getting kids to smile on command during a photo session? Not exactly a walk in the park. But you know what does work?

Playing.

Your family session doesn’t have to feel like a battle. As a mom and a photographer, I’ve seen time and time again: when kids (and parents) are actually having fun, the magic happens. And guess what? That’s when we get the good stuff. The photos that feel like you. The ones you’ll treasure because they capture joy, not just smiles.

Pro tip: These games aren’t just for photo day! You can “practice” them during playtime at home. The more familiar they are, the more natural they’ll feel in front of the camera—and the less pressure everyone will feel in the moment.

Plus, it turns photo prep into connection time. No Pinterest-perfect poses, just silly moments you already share… now with bonus memories attached.

They’re designed for toddlers through elementary-age kids (roughly 2–10), but many work beautifully for big kids and grown-ups too. You know your crew best—adapt as needed and have fun with it!

So here’s your cheat sheet to the best games for keeping your kids engaged—and your photos full of connection, laughter, and personality.

Whether you’re prepping for a full session or just need some tricks to keep the kids engaged, these 10 games are easy, natural, and guaranteed to create sweet, connection-filled moments.

1. Follow the Leader

Let your littles lead the pack—around a tree, down a path, or through a flower field. You follow close behind and just… go with it. It’s a great way to start the session with movement, confidence, and a sense of fun.

Best for ages 2 and up

2. Noggin!  (aka Noses or Foreheads Together)

Inspired by Finding Nemo, the classic “Noggin… duuude!” works like a charm. Have two family members bump foreheads or gently touch noses. It’s a subtle prompt that creates connection—and the giggles usually follow fast.

Great for all ages (yes, even newborn babies!)

3. Cheek Sandwich

This one’s as cute as it sounds. Everyone presses cheeks together—mom, dad, kids, whoever’s in the shot—and holds it for a few seconds. It’s cozy, a little silly, and perfect for that close-up group photo with a side of squish

Best for ages 1 and up

4. Cheese Dip

No actual cheese required. 😄 Just scoop your kiddo up and dip them upside down! It's playful, unexpected, and always ends in a burst of laughter (and the best candid expressions).

Best for ages 2-7 (or anyone small enough to lift safely)

5. Dance & Twirl

Play their favorite song (or just hum it if your hands are full), and dance like no one’s watching. (Except me... with my camera. 😉). Twirl your toddler, sway with your spouse, or jump around as a family. The movement brings the smiles—and keeps things light.

Fun for 18 months and up (even parents get bonus points!)

6. Bumpy Piggyback Ride

Throw a kiddo on your back or shoulders and bounce them around a little. It might look chaotic in real life, but trust me—the photos? Absolute joy. Hair flying, parents laughing, and genuine delight all around. 10/10 recommend.

Best for ages 2-8 (or whatever your back can handle)

7. Superman

The classic “fly like a superhero” pose never fails. Lift your little one in the air and let them stretch out their arms. You’ll get the giggles, the wide eyes, and that one perfect moment when they feel on top of the world.

Best for ages 6 months-6 years (or anyone light enough to lift comfortably and safely)

8. Simon Says

A sneaky way to get participation and follow instructions. “Simon says tickle your sister!” “Simon says hug dad!” “Simon says kiss mommy’s cheek!” "Simon says put your hands in your lap"—they’ll listen (because it’s a game), and you’ll get authentic moments that feel effortless.

Fun for ages 3-8

9. Peek-a-Boo

Especially great for toddlers or shy kiddos. Peek out from behind mom’s dress, a tree, or even your own hands. I like to peek out from behind my camera to engage my littlest subjects. It’s sweet, it’s safe, and it never goes out of style.

Best for ages 6 months - 4 years (but older siblings love to help too)

10. Tug of War

Place your kiddo(s) in the middle between mom and dad. Their job? Try to pull you toward the camera. Your job? Pretend to hold on for dear life. It’s playful chaos… with built-in connection.

Fun for ages 3 and up

Bonus 11. Wobbly Walk (aka “Silly Bump Walk”)

Walk toward me slowly and gently bump into each other along the way. It’s silly, unpredictable, and full of giggles. Perfect for siblings or the whole fam.

Great for ages 4 and up (great for couples too)

Remember—photos don’t have to be stiff to be stunning.

And you don’t have to choose between “picture-perfect” and present. You can just be you. When you invite play into your session, you’re not just getting great photos—you’re making a memory while you make the moment.

So go ahead. Dip ‘em. Spin ‘em. Squish cheeks together and shout “cheese dip!”

You’ll get the images you feel—and that’s what makes them last.

Bonus: You can start playing these games tonight, in the living room, with your hair in a messy bun and zero pressure. And when photo day comes? Everyone will already know the script.

💛 Ready for a session that feels more like playtime than picture day, let’s make it happen.

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